Some of you may be asking "Whats up with all the new letters I have seen?"
What do all the letters mean?
Most of us are familiar with the initials LGBT the acronym for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender.
I have also seen the following additions
LGBTQ - Q- Questioning
LGBTQI - I - Intersex
LGBTQIA - A - Asexual
And I have seen others that I could not find definitions for.
I have also seen it written GLBT but for the purposes of this blog I will use the LGBT initials used by organizations like GLAAD, PFLAG, The Advocate and many others.
This in no way means I do not acknowledge all the added ones, so please do not think I do not include you all here.
LGBT, STRAIGHT, SEX AND PORN. Straight gal writing for gay studio, yes I've already heard it before. - -LGBT and marriage equality advocate who thinks getting along makes everything better. - Love & sex are what is beautiful about being human and only dirty if you do it in a mud puddle. - - I talk to myself here if you want to listen in.
Showing posts with label LGBT. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LGBT. Show all posts
Thursday, April 19, 2012
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Take The Straight Quiz
Straight Quiz
1. What do you think caused you to be Straight?
2. Do you think it was because you were brought up in a single parent household?
3. Are you Straight because you are secretly afraid of the people of your same sex?
4. Is it because you viewed porn that you are now calling yourself Straight?
5. Do you think being Straight is a mental illness?
6. Do you think it was because you played with dolls instead of trucks when you were a kid that you are Straight?
7. What do your parents think of you coming out as Straight?
I know you can see how ridiculous these questions are but these and many more are the questions LGBT individuals are bombarded with from all sides. So please take a moment and try to see things from another's perspective.
1. What do you think caused you to be Straight?
2. Do you think it was because you were brought up in a single parent household?
3. Are you Straight because you are secretly afraid of the people of your same sex?
4. Is it because you viewed porn that you are now calling yourself Straight?
5. Do you think being Straight is a mental illness?
6. Do you think it was because you played with dolls instead of trucks when you were a kid that you are Straight?
7. What do your parents think of you coming out as Straight?
I know you can see how ridiculous these questions are but these and many more are the questions LGBT individuals are bombarded with from all sides. So please take a moment and try to see things from another's perspective.
Friday, April 6, 2012
What Straight People Can Do Now
This might be a somewhat uncomfortable subject for some straight people because they do not know where to begin or if they are wanted. However LGBT organizations do acknowledge the phrase "preaching to the choir".
There are LGBT organizations who DO want us included in the discussions like
Straight For Equality - created by PFLAG National
The folowing is a partial reprint from their FAQ page.
For the complete FAQ page from Straight For Equality please click on the link
http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=614&chid=1
There are LGBT organizations who DO want us included in the discussions like
Straight For Equality - created by PFLAG National
The folowing is a partial reprint from their FAQ page.
Why should straight people be interested in issues facing Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Transgender people?
Many people have a gay friend and want to make things better for them. Others have realized that discrimination against any group is wrong and needs to be stopped. Some believe that, in the words of Martin Luther King, Jr., “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere”. Still others want the opportunity to change history. To achieve equality, gay people need the help of straight allies. When we work together, we can affect great change. Besides, if you were being discriminated against, wouldn’t you want others to stand up for you? Here’s your chance.What are the issues gay people face anyway?
There are a number of challenges that gay people face in their personal and private lives as a result of discrimination and bias. On a personal level, many are concerned about being rejected by their families and friends, worried about their safety, and are afraid of being rejected from their places of worship. On a more public level, gay people can still legally be denied employment, housing, and other rights straight people have simply because of who they are. To learn more about these challenges, visit the PFLAG National website.If I get involved in Straight for Equality, will people think I’m gay?
The assumption that someone would only care enough to raise the issue of equality for gay, lesbian, bi, and transgender people if they themselves are gay still happens, and, for some people, this can be an uncomfortable reality at first.
Simply being aware of this possibility gives you power to handle it on your own terms. You can clarify that you are straight, or leave the question unanswered. If you choose not to answer, it will often lead to a more detailed discussion about orientation and give you and the people you’re speaking with an opportunity to talk about the issue. This experience can offer a valuable perspective into the lives and challenges gay people deal with all the time.
Working through any anxiety you may have for being mistaken for being gay – and being able to have a good laugh about it – will give you the confidence and the tools to have a deeper discussion with others about the issue.
For the complete FAQ page from Straight For Equality please click on the link
http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=614&chid=1
Sunday, March 25, 2012
An Open Apology To All
I am straight and I am sorry for taking for granted all the entitlement and privileges I receive in this world that you do not.
I am sorry for the cruel things I said to you in school.
I am sorry my thoughtlessness embarrassed you in front of others.
I am sorry for not extending my hand in friendship when I could have.
I am sorry for the tasteless jokes I said at the office.
I am sorry I made your work environment tough to go to each day.
I am sorry for the thoughtless comments you overheard me say to others.
I am sorry if your family did not support you when you came out or even rejected you.
I am sorry that you always have to be careful what you say around me.
I am sorry for all the times an ignorant comment from me made you feel less than.
I am sorry that I made you feel less of a man or woman.
I am sorry this is too little and too late in coming.
I am sorry, I was wrong and you did not deserve any of it.
With great respect and humility,
Shadow Sterling
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I am sorry for the cruel things I said to you in school.
I am sorry my thoughtlessness embarrassed you in front of others.
I am sorry for not extending my hand in friendship when I could have.
I am sorry for the tasteless jokes I said at the office.
I am sorry I made your work environment tough to go to each day.
I am sorry for the thoughtless comments you overheard me say to others.
I am sorry if your family did not support you when you came out or even rejected you.
I am sorry that you always have to be careful what you say around me.
I am sorry for all the times an ignorant comment from me made you feel less than.
I am sorry that I made you feel less of a man or woman.
I am sorry this is too little and too late in coming.
I am sorry, I was wrong and you did not deserve any of it.
With great respect and humility,
Shadow Sterling
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